Source:
Hsu, L. & Tripathi, S. (2025). “After Midlife, What Next? Rethinking Future Orientations, Belonging, and Success Among Executive Expatriates.”
Advances in Social Sciences Research Journal. Licensed under CC BY 4.0.
https://journals.scholarpublishing.org/index.php/ASSRJ/article/view/19555
Summary: Integrating insights from Hsu & Tripathi, 2025, applied to the EU expat experience)
Recent qualitative research on midlife expatriates shows a consistent psychological pattern.
Around ages 40–55, many high-achieving expats reach a turning point where their sense of identity,
belonging, and success becomes less stable.
Although the study was conducted in Singapore, the underlying themes reflect experiences reported by European expats working across the Netherlands, Germany, Switzerland, France, Austria, Belgium, Norway, and similar contexts.
Across interviews, participants described:
An achievement-driven identity that no longer feels sustainable
A mismatch between external success and internal satisfaction
Feeling partially connected to several places but fully at home in none
Uncertainty about long-term direction, retirement, or returning home
A growing interest in purpose, values, and relationships over status
A shift from identity based on roles to identity based on meaning
The researchers emphasize that this is not a clinical crisis. It is a predictable developmental transition that many midlife expats navigate with limited support.
Unlike corporate assignees who often have structured mobility programs and defined timelines, many EU expats relocate for personal, lifestyle, or career reasons. This creates several conditions:
Moves that begin as temporary often extend into long-term residence
Cultural adaptation happens gradually rather than through formal systems
Social networks tend to remain thinner than at home
Career performance becomes a primary anchor for identity
These dynamics can produce a “double displacement” effect:
a reduced sense of belonging in the home country and incomplete integration in the host country.
By midlife, many EU expats report:
An aging or plateauing career identity
Limited social depth
Unclear long-term plans
A fragmented sense of self
A diffuse feeling of belonging
The researchers refer to this as a form of identity strain.
The study outlines a general sequence experienced by many participants:
A. Midlife as a Point of Reflection
Individuals reassess the long-term effects of years spent prioritizing performance, mobility, and adaptation.
B. Success Feels Less Meaningful
External indicators of achievement lose their emotional impact, creating a gap between professional identity and personal fulfillment.
C. Ambiguous Belonging
Many no longer feel fully “from” their country of origin yet do not feel fully rooted in the host society. Home becomes more of an idea than a place.
D. Rising Priority on Meaning and Connection
Participants express increasing interest in purpose, contribution, emotional connection, and internal alignment.
The study concludes that midlife expatriates experience an identifiable psychological transition linked to long-term mobility, career-driven identity, and cultural displacement.
The researchers highlight several key points:
Identity strain is common rather than exceptional
It follows a recognisable developmental trajectory
It affects both personal well-being and career decisions
Existing support systems rarely address identity-level questions
The transition requires integrated attention to identity, belonging, purpose, and future planning
Participants in the study reported navigating this transition largely on their own. According to the authors, what is lacking is:
structured reflection
guidance on identity change
support in redefining success and belonging
help integrating personal, relational, and career factors
frameworks for planning the next life phase
The study notes that midlife expatriates often hesitate to discuss these issues with employers, partners, or peers, resulting in silent internal pressure rather than open support.
This research provides a clear description of the psychological landscape of midlife expatriates. It identifies identity strain as:
real (commonly observed across participants)
predictable (linked to career-driven mobility and midlife development)
under-supported (rarely addressed in formal or informal systems)
The findings emphasize the need for comprehensive approaches that help expats reassess identity, belonging, purpose, and future direction during this developmental stage.